Letting Go vs Holding On

How can someone be sure of loving unconditionally a person against all odds?

There are stories bound to change a persons being by showing affection towards another. In life we have lived by different stories on how we can get along in finding the other half that we have been looking for or for some they have waited for. How can we define its' essence in reality? We have found a person incapable of love but have succeeded in winning his affection and we see people fought for love but have lost it.

Is letting go a sign of love? They say when you let go you have put behind all your feelings and grudges towards the person you have loved just to make them happy. Letting go is never easy, they said that it would bring a persons life in custody for questioning unto how and why it happened. When you say go you let the feelings around you fly with the wind and along with the person. Tears fall and memories run dry as time passes by but what if you have met the person that causes your grief over love? Does that mean you have forgotten about it?

What if holding on to your love is a great cause for them to notice that you are the one for them? You might say that martyr people have always won the hearts of their beloved but when time passes the pain will always be there. Blinded by the facts of the person you love have sinned; deaf on all the opinions of the others; and mute on all the sufferings you have because you wanted to stay and fight for it. Holding on might seem a negative way of fighting for the one you love because when you think of it, no one can despise you even the your other himself. Holding on seems endless to the people who have focused their beings to only one person.

Whatever the meaning of love from me to you, I would say that love is never CONDITIONAL. Loving would simply mean taking each day at at time to cherish the moments and bagging the experiences that only you can have. We have all borrowed all the things on earth even our life itself, letting go and holding on would also mean that the things we have borrowed may have belonged to somebody else and it's time for us to return them WHOLEHEARTEDLY.