Do you really think there is only one perfect mate?

Do you really think there is only one perfect mate?

How can you be certain to find them?

And if you find them, are they really the one for you...

Or do you only think they are?

What if the person you're meant to be with never appears?

Or she does, but you're too distracted to notice?
                   
If you learn to pay attention...Then, let's say...

God puts two people on earth and they are lucky enough to find one another...

But...one of them gets hit by lightning,

Well, then what?...Is that it?...
                
Or perchance you meet someone new and marry again,
                   
Is that the lady you should be with?...Or was it the first?...

When the two of them are side by side, 

Were they both the one for you...

And you just met the first one first?
                  
Or is the second one supposed to be first?
                  
And is everything just chance, or are some things meant to be?
               
We cannot leave everything to fate, 

Sometimes we must give each other a hand...

from the movie EVERAFTER (1998 )